remember, there are some chicks that like bigger guys...
my last woman, who i was with for 5 years loved the belly.... she liked to lounge on it (then again, so did my dog... hmmm)...
and i was great to cuddle.
Looks are only part of the equation, and a personality makes up for that like you wouldn't believe.
You just have to open yourself up to it and believe it before it will happen.
I had trouble with that at one point, but then before dating this last girl there were like 4 of us trying for her very hard (this was college, she was new and hot, everyone wanted a piece).
At that point i basically thought I had no chance because i'mjust the "funny fat guy everyone wants to be friends with" and a couple of the other guys were more attractive and whatnot...
BUt, in the end I won out and shit, that did so much for my outlook on life.
Currently i'm not dating anyone, but I hang out with the hottest chicks i work with and everyone loves the personality...
it's amazing what you can accomplish when you believe in yourself
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