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Is sex really that important to so many people's relationships?
A lot of people come on here and say things in the nature of "oh, she doesnt sound a good catch" - but would these people honestly say, if you loved someone, but the sex was ok, you wouldnt want to be with them for the rest of your life?
I am not trying to seay sex isnt an important part of a relationship, or that it cant be a hella lot of fun, but to me so many people place too much improtance and pressure on it, I just think its better to be more laid back, work on slowly and together to make it better - if there is a problem.
To me, sexual relations are a really great extra, but in a relationship I would never say you should be seeing them as the priority.
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