BlueBongo

K... we moved cross country together so I can go to school, I feel kinda guilty partly because a good friend of mine lives in Richmond and I think she's pretty snazzy so we've been hanging out.. looking for jobs and doing various things.

My boyfriend has basically moved across the country with only me and not really knowing anyone else.. he kinda knows my friend.. but she feels hurt by various things he does when he does come a long. I do enjoy getting out and about with my boyfriend but I don't want to hurt his feelings either, though I'm sure he'll read this, but that's ok.

Some of the things I can understand, we both dislike smoking yet everyone in Richmond smokes and though I am a bit allergic, I hang out with my friend that smokes and her mom that live here.

I just know he doesn't have anyone here but me right now... so I suppose when I go out for 16+ hours and come back to find he hasn't had the opportunity to get out and about to see some stuff I just don't know how to feel about that.

I know we need to get out together and kinda see stuff, but that requires money we don't have. And we both need to do some adjusting to life here in many ways.
I know that once he starts working and meeting people things will be better, I just am not sure how to broach various subjects without coming off like somewhat of a bitch as far as my friend is concerned. My friend thinks Sam is awesome but finds him a bit abbrasive at times and feels guilty about smoking around him which I told her I didn't think was a big deal.... but I dunno, just puts me in a weird place I guess.

I was just wondering if anyone else had been through this before???

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