Some pointers for some of us apprehensive people would be nice.

This one girl I work with keeps on flirting with me and I still can't get up the nerve to ask her on a date. The thing is she is 5 years younger than me (she is 21, me 26) and I am not sure if she is just playing around.
Here are some things she has said to me:
1) "I want you for christmas naked in a stocking"
2) " You make me horny"
The only problem is alot of these things are kinda tounge in cheek. She has also asked for my # but like a dumbass I didn't get hers. Every girl I have dated has asked me out, I am so dense when it comes to women and flirting. I need to get my tail out from inbetween my legs and just go for it. I have had one REALLY good chance to ask her when she asked me what I was doing one night, but my sister was in town and I needed to spend time with her. Sorry for the long post I am just a little frustrated.