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Old 01-03-2004, 10:11 AM   #24 (permalink)
sexymama
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Location: Lebell's arms
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Originally posted by rzuwik
i constantly catch myself acting totally based on the feedback i get from the lady.

but maybe it works the other way round -- if men actually gave as much feedback as women, then women would also fall into the realtime analysis and preemptive execution trap.

and, hell, how does this keep you from moaning?
It is true -- the more Lebell talks, moans, etc. giving me feedback, the more I am able to work to please him. This is very mutually satisfying as we are both pleasing each other. BTW, I love the feedback. There is a great deal of satisfaction in knowing that I'm pleasing him as much as he pleases me.
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