I have way more good and great happy memories of the x than bad ones. I have kept everything. I don't pull it out every day or every month, but I am not going to trash the last 7 years of my life. Althogh I totaly agree with keeping the nudie pics. My x was once in a photography class in college. She took some realy awesome nudes of her self using a timer and tripod. They she developed the pics her self and used some really awesome developing methods on them to get some cool effects. I really like them a lot and some times when I feel down I pul them out and remember that some one did care about me. Then I wank it.
Once I was talking to the x and she asked if I would ever send out her pics or use them for black mail. I told her I never would, and I ment it. To me they are my pics and only my pics. Even if I never am with her again they are something that her current BF or future BF will never have.
Wow, that was a little longer than it started out to be.