B Man, just a guess here but I think if someone asked her about your relationship together, she might see it differently than you do. The fact that you've been together for 4 months, yet she never gave you her home number is telling in my my mind. Are you sure she sees you as a couple, as you describe it? It may be a lot more casual situation to her than you think it to be. I know that's awfully hard to tell when it's your first relationship.
If you're going to keep this on track and have it be a good relationship for you for the future, you are going to have to talk to her about the way you are relating to each other, and how your expectations were apparently far different from hers in rgards to keeping in touch. I've never been one to enjoy talking on the phone, but my wife knows that, and when she was my gf I still made an effort to keep in touch when we were apart, because it was important to the relationship.
Good luck.
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