If I was dating someone and they told me they had had a sex change, I wouldn't continue dating them. Not because I think it's necessarily wrong, but because I thought they were one thing (a woman) but they weren't (in my mind).
If I was dating someone and they told me they wanted or were going to have a sex change I wouldn't continue with it either. Perhaps their personality might stay the same but I'm in that relationship partly because I'm attracted to that person on a physical level too, and if that changed so drastically then I think my feelings would change. I think that's one of the main differences between friendships and relationships - that physical attraction.
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