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Ok. Part of me says tell her your feelings and if she's inflexible to your sexual needs to go elsewhere. I believe that if you're gonna expect a person to be faithful to you you gotta be willing to take care of their desires or at least try within reason. At least you didn't ask for a Cleveland Steamer or something. I don't think a BiMMF isn't too terribly off the wall compared to what you could ask for.
If she says no then you gotta decide how bad you need this to complete and define your sexual horizons. If it means that much to you get a separation and go after it. That way you take the high road and free yourself from the obvious sexual tyranny you live under right now.You can't make cheating look moral or honorable. Cheating is just a way of having your cake and eating it too...it can't last and ends in nothing but pain and litigation. better to quit the marriage while you're ahead if this means enough to you. Personally I feel no partner should ever restrict another's sexual desires. If they can't deal with it like your wife and anal then they should allow that person to find it elsewhere with the understanding of safety.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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