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lee251968 · 11-07-2003, 11:45 AM

The simple answer is: tell her. If she says no, I think you have to abide by her wishes. Marriage sometimes involves sacrifices, and unless you discussed this before you got married, you're asking her to accept a fairly radical redefinition of your relationship that includes other people and excludes her. Ultimately it's your life and you're free to do what you want, but you have to accept the consequences for your relationship with your wife. If this - experiences with other men - is something you feel you really can't live without, and if she can't bring herself to accept it, it may be time to talk more seriously about dissolving the marriage. Please don't cheat on her. You both deserve better than that.

The sacrifice you talk about should work both ways. Should at least try the dildo thing. I am in the same situation. Over the past few years I have had more and more of an desire to experence different sexual situations. Maybe it is because that over the past few years our sex life has become routine and everything that I try to liven it up is rejected.

11-07-2003, 11:45 AM	#21 (permalink)
lee251968 Upright	The simple answer is: tell her. If she says no, I think you have to abide by her wishes. Marriage sometimes involves sacrifices, and unless you discussed this before you got married, you're asking her to accept a fairly radical redefinition of your relationship that includes other people and excludes her. Ultimately it's your life and you're free to do what you want, but you have to accept the consequences for your relationship with your wife. If this - experiences with other men - is something you feel you really can't live without, and if she can't bring herself to accept it, it may be time to talk more seriously about dissolving the marriage. Please don't cheat on her. You both deserve better than that. The sacrifice you talk about should work both ways. Should at least try the dildo thing. I am in the same situation. Over the past few years I have had more and more of an desire to experence different sexual situations. Maybe it is because that over the past few years our sex life has become routine and everything that I try to liven it up is rejected. Last edited by lee251968; 11-07-2003 at 11:47 AM..