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Originally posted by uptown
What I'm thinking of doing at this point is to give him permission to sleep with whomever he wants,whever he wants.I feel badly that he's stuck with having to pretend to be excited enough to make love to me.
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Wow.
I've just gone back and reread all of your posts in this thread, looking for any indications of communications between you and your husband. I have found very little. What I see is the following:
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- He likes the young ones, he comments and eyes them like a wolf that hasn't been fed in a couple of weeks
- He's also usually pretty profuse with the compliments about my appearance
- wondering what or who my man must be thinking about when he reaches for me
- I've even started to simply go for giving a BJ when he reaches for me because I don't have to take off my clothing and my hair hides my face.
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I expect that he will be shocked when you suggest that he sleep around. He's been complementing you (you probably disagree with him when he says it, but he figures you are just being polite/shy), he's been having sex with you, he loves you. And suddenly, you will hit him with this.
However, I'm not saying not to try this. This may be the impetus that he needs to know what you are thinking. But, don't start the conversation with it. At least, save it for halfway through.