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Originally posted by redlemon
That is very interesting, and I think I understand somewhat more about what is bothering you now.
Nonetheless, I still believe your husband. Guys will always look, but there are two levels. The girls that he ogles are just eye candy, nothing more. It is like porn; he probably enjoys that as well, but he doesn't actually want to sleep with those women, and certainly wouldn't want to talk with them over breakfast.
He loves you, and that includes your looks, your abilities, your humor, the time you held his head up while he vomited from drinking too much, that funny little whistle your nose makes when you laugh, and everything else in your past together.
His attraction for you comes from love, and love comes from far more than just looks.
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Well,try as I might that thought isn't helping me in at all in bed.
What I'm thinking of doing at this point is to give him permission to sleep with whomever he wants,whever he wants.I feel badly that he's stuck with having to pretend to be excited enough to make love to me.