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Same boat here. I am no where near the actual realm of having sex with my ex, but i am trying to reintroduce ourselves to eachother by limiting the past that we knew of eachother.
When i met my ex-g/f, I was a junkie in denial of several bad habits. Now ive turned my life around, and actually have a job, am legal in the sense of recreation and have started goign back to schoool.
I *know* I was tremendously at faul tin our previous relationship. it was very much on again and off again. Going into the relationship, there was a bit of illusion of the person I was and the person she saw. I was quite immature, and I was her first long-term boyfriend.
While I was persuing others, i was also persuing her in the last attempt at being together. I had cleaned myself of illegal habits, but I was not very understanding of her nature. We also did not argue properly.
In my experience, I have had sex with two exes that turned back into sequel relationships. One was great, but ended bad (my drug addiction), and the other was me no longer being an addict, and my girlfriend bringing up trends of the past that I had followed in arguments for thigns I was doing.. (a la dirty laundry.)
I am trying to reintroduce msyelf to her now as the changed person that I am, very subtly, and nowhere near emotinally physical as we once were.
If you have a clean head, and a clean mind, and she isn't loco, i say give it a shot. The absence and relationship of hers might have given her insight to know who you were.
Besides, if you don't do it, you might regret losing "the one."
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