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Something to consider:
Though this doesn't seem to be exactly the case here, I tend to last a lot longer than my girlfriend. As a general principle, I have a much easier time getting her to orgasm than she does me. I always *love* what she does, and it feels great all the time, but for some reason it takes longer.
As a result of this, it usually ends up being fantastic when I actually do orgasm; however, at the same time, I feel selfish making her do all that work. Or, when we're having sex, if I get a little over-ambitious and make her orgasm, I generally don't like to keep pounding away at her afterwards, when it doesn't feel good for her. She says she doesn't mind, so I let her get me to orgasm, but it feels one sided.
We talk about this though, and it's not a big problem for us. Just thought I might give you a heads up on a potential reason (aside from "that time of the month") for this behavior.
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