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la_lunasea · 10-29-2003, 10:22 AM

It's fucked up, immature, and pathetic to use a person to get someone else out of your system.
Be an adult, take a good look inside yourself, talk about your feelings with any good listeners, do nice things for yourself, most importantly, just be present. If you live in the moment, it's hard to trip on the past.

If you decide to go the rebound route because you don't have the strength and courage to heal your own ass, make certain the other person is clear about what you're doing.
You may be lucky and he/she may just want to get laid, too, and could give a shit about you as well.
I just hope for your sake that you're not as big of a loser as the previous poster and will utilize healthier means of dealing.

10-29-2003, 10:22 AM	#17 (permalink)
la_lunasea Upright Location: SF, CA	It's fucked up, immature, and pathetic to use a person to get someone else out of your system. Be an adult, take a good look inside yourself, talk about your feelings with any good listeners, do nice things for yourself, most importantly, just be present. If you live in the moment, it's hard to trip on the past. If you decide to go the rebound route because you don't have the strength and courage to heal your own ass, make certain the other person is clear about what you're doing. You may be lucky and he/she may just want to get laid, too, and could give a shit about you as well. I just hope for your sake that you're not as big of a loser as the previous poster and will utilize healthier means of dealing. Last edited by la_lunasea; 10-29-2003 at 10:25 AM..