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Thank you so much for your very detailed posts and the offer for assistence in the advice area if needed. Don't be surprised when I use it, because i probably will.
As for my explanation for asking the question...suck it up and tell the people....ok. I was searching the internet for...well for lack of a better term...A woman for my husband to share. Because as many of the ladies know I'm bisexual. Well while durring my search I found that this was easier to find on swinger classifieds sites. Well I found a local couple on one of these sites that sounded like they would be really cool to hang out with.
Well once they got back to me they told me that they were half owners of a yahoo group for local swingers and after talking to them for awhile, and discussing it in depth with the husband we decided to check it out and see what it was all about.
We've been in the group now for about a month and have met some really cool people, and are really enjoying the hanging out part of the whole situation. We are still yet to do more that flirt, fondle and be fondled and all of that is on a very small scale.
We know that we are not ready to have sex with anyone else. And that is part of our rules that we have worked out with eachother. The thing is that it has changed our relationship. It's more like it used to be. We talk more and we touch eachother more and I don't know...it seems to be more intence than it used to be. I think it's great. Yes, we have run into a few snags but we have worked out these problems so much faster than we used to work out anything else. And it has seemed to get him better at discussing what he's feeling, which he has never been really good at.
So, that is the back story behind the post/question. I would still like to know more opinions. I realize that it's a very emotional question...trust me it's far more emotional once it becomes feasible.
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