I think you need to step back and ask yourself whether you really want HER or whether you are hurting because you really want SOMEONE in your life. It sounds more like the latter. If you get back together with her, you're solving the problem of having someone and bringing back whatever other major issues were in the fold.
You'll find someone else. Why not try dating instead? It will take you some time to get to the comfort level you had with the ex, but at least you're not bringing all of the unresolvable problems back into the picture. Good luck, and hang in there.
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