hey uptown. heres food for THOUGHT
guys are visual. most girls hate that cuz we arent 36-25-34. those girls are there SIMPLY for the sake of visual stimulation, and last time i checked, guys DO have more (as much as your ego is telling you otherwise). I can only say much of this cuz i am really self conscious but hide by acting like im not (go fig) ANYWHO, many many guys dont like that perfect cute package and as one of my ex's put wonderfully, "i want a girl i can find in the dark" and "i want a girl im not going to break". if anything, smile at it, its the truth. guys like to look, but what they want to touch is different (if im wrong guys, let me know please! this is my personal experiences from a FEMALE aspect, i could easily be worng).
And then there's that whole issue of LOVE. he loves you. if you need reassurance or explation beyond that, go read the lit threads (PLUG- see NiceGuy's thread "one night")
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