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Originally posted by shannon
i think a better option than cheating is telling her that you're so desperate you're thinking of cheating. then let her make the choice, whether she's willing to bend so you won't break or whether that just won't work.
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I've been thinking this would probably be the way to go but it sounds too much like an ultamatum (which it is I guess). The problem with this though is that if she doesn't bend she will assume I decided to cheat and then our relationship could crumble even if I don't cheat. I really don't want to cheat cause I know I will feel like shit for doing that to her. I feel like I'm banging my head against a wall.