He wouldn't be banging you if he didn't think you were sexy. As long as a mate (female or male) doesn't get obese and generally takes some care with their appearance then there shouldn't be any reason to not be attracted to them/you. Is my older wife as physically attractive as some 20 year old? No. I don't choose to live my life with and love some random piece of meat. You are thinking too much. Even when you were 20 there were many other 20 year olds that were better looking than you. Looks are in the eye of the beholder. I love my wife and when I look at her and fool around with her she is still the sam beauty I married 16 years ago. You have issues with yourself and that you are growing old and you are projecting them on him. My dad still loves my mom and they get it on. Don't worry about it. It isn't a problem.
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