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Hi uptown,
Looks are important when you meet someone, but the longer you are together, the less important they are if the love is there. I am only thirty, but I met my wife when we were in college, so she and I have seen the changes in each other. We have seen each other gain weight, and I have seen her add a few gray hairs. The point is, we know what makes each other feel good, and we know how to please each other. What makes sex sometimes perfunctory for us is not spending the quality time leading up to it paying attention to each other. We both work and have night classes, so we don't get to spend as much time together, and that is what dampens our sexuality with each other and the giving. but when we have had enough sleep and we have time together, it is really good.
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