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men and women can never be friends. in the sense that there's always going to be some sexual tension. on either or both parties parts.. but that doesn't go to show that you can't have a successful platonic relationship with people of the opposite sex. especially if you're in a serious relationship, you should be able to control any urges. and you might be so into your girl that urges won't even come up or be an issue. in any case, meeting the girl should be fine. it takes trust. she might wonder why you'd want to meet a girl from the internet. i had a bf that got superjealous about that. but my intentions were never sexual and he shouldn't have overreacted like he did. if she gets bugged about it, try to assure her your intentions are pure without pointing any fingers or blame (being too jealous, insecure etc.. name calling takes it down a notch to immaturity and makes it harder to get your point across)
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