Okay this is the situation. I met this really great guy when I was away at work. When I left we exchanged phone numbers(his idea). We've talked several times since then and the conversations have been great.
Our last convo we had, I had stated to him that I missed him and everyone else. He reciprocated the missing me part and also stated that he looked forward to seeing me again. Which took me by surprise. I assured him he'd see me very soon because I would be hearing news on my transfer that week.
Since then, I called about 3 times filling him in on the info about me moving and etc. He didn't answer the phone but I left voice mails for him. I was coming into his town(my new town) and left a voice message stating that I'd be there and if he'd want to see me or talk to give me a call. He's still not called and it's been about a week or so since I was up there last.
He is busy working 7 days straight and long hours and also is an avid hunter/fisher so I was thinking that maybe he's just not had time to call. But phone calls only take a couple minutes to do.
Am I being paranoid or does he just not care? Should I call him and tell him it's bugging me that he hasn't called, or should I wait until I move there to speak with him? Should I just accept that he's too busy right now? Any advice and thoughts on the matter from both genders is appreciated