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Originally posted by cruisergirl
There is no disrespect in giving or getting head. I love it, and my bf loves for me to do it. He's never known a woman who enjoys it as much as I do, and I can say that I'm pretty damn good at it. I crave it at times, and if that's degrading then we're all in trouble. I did have a bit of a hard time relaxing when he did it, but I know he loves to do it, so perhaps that is the key. If you're clear about how much you enjoy it, it may take off some of the pressure and let them enjoy it that much more.
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I know I love nothing better than giving the hubby head. I love the way he always grins and looks at me after and says "babe your soooo cool." and it makes him happy for at least the next two days. But in all honesty I have (in past relationships) been in situations where I did feel degraded by it. But that was purely because the guy thought of BJ's as a right, not as a gift. It's all about how you feel about it, but it is a gift. Something some one can do for another. As (in my opinion) all sexual acts are.