I'm very similar Mojo... dont know why. Its not even like I dont have confidence.
I think my main problem is that I am too whatever. I'm too easy - going. I know girls have shown interest before.. I just never do anything about it, Even though I would not feel uncomfortable if I did... I never get flustered or anything around girls. I dont really know why.
I do understand where your coming from though. Always seem to be overlooked while they go out with jackasses (not always the case). I'm working on it though=) Like someone else said.. meet someone new, dont go for your friends. If your going to act assertive I think it would be better with someone who doesn't really know you. You can creat a new image of yourself to this person.
Good luck !
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