god, you guys. so many of you seem to have no idea what it's like to be robbed of your sexuality. many of your comments are just plain inappropriate and homophobic.
as for advice: JUST BE HONEST WITH HIM. you have no reservations coming on here and asking for advice from total strangers...if you are truly close to this guy as a friend and value your relationship, it should be possible to talk about it intelligently, honestly, and reasonably.
i'm sure it's a difficult/awkward situation, but try to break down the gender roles you are maintaining. if he is touching you in a way you feel is inappropriate LET HIM KNOW. otherwise, he will probably just continue to do it (whether he is trying to come onto your or not).
take care, and i hope everything works out!
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