beware of entering into a contract you are not comfortable with. Postpone the wedding until things are ready, or walk away. Integrity is follow through on values, identify your values here, and follow through. a 7 year relationship can be, without question, a thing to value, but always remember that your ultimate value is your life. Your life is an end to itself, not a means to an end. Living it in a contract you will be likely to break is not reasonable. Either make this a contract you will want to stay in, or don't make the commitment.
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Time flies like an arrow, fruit flies
like a banana.
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