I have been with my gf for the last 9 years.We have gone through some tough times for the both of us.
I have gone from a very active outdoor lifestyle to one where I am limited to level ground. She had to endure 1 year of me not being able to get aroud much, put up with the mood swings and see my whole attitude towards life change.
I have watched her fall to pieces while she looked at her mother die from cancer. This ripped her heart out and I think a piece of her died too.
As with all things in life they change, as a couple we have had to move with these things and adjust to them. Sure we both went through our phases of is it worth it, and the "you have changed".
I would say when we both look at each other now we dont see what we did all those years back, it has become something deeper, more of a need for each other. We dont get to see each other that much during the week due to our work, and life seems lacking when we are appart. Yet we can sit in a room and not speak to each other. It is just being together makes us at ease.
We have just bought our first home and will be moved in by christmas. we are both looking at this as a new beginning and are very excited about it.
So in a round about way I guess I am saying that you both have changed , but give it time it will be well worth it.
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its evolution baby
Last edited by homerhop; 10-02-2003 at 08:56 AM..
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