Pain is the only way to make someone "get over" you, short of going out and finding someone better than yourself that will take this girl on.
I waited for Jinya for six years. She was married for three of them and I was married for two of them. She had two kids. She got divorced, I saw my chance, left my wife, and now we're together.
You will have to hurt her, find her ideal mate for her, or deal with the fact that she will be pining for you while you're not ready to be involved with her.
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