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Yes, jokes are a definate no-no. Seriously, most girls take their first time really seriously. Chances are, it will be crappy and uncomfortable for you both. It is for most people. Just don't let her remember you as "the asshole who stole my virginity crappily." All the previous advice has been good, I can only emphasize slowness, not only for her sake, as it is guaranteed pain, but for yours, as you stand a good chance of getting off too quickly, tho some guys have performance problems for starters. Making sure she is properly lubed will help a lot, whether that entails foreplay, oral, lube-in-a-bottle, or all three. Just do whatever you need to keep her comfortable and don't psych yourself out. Good luck!
PS, as a lot of first time experiences turn out not-so-hot, you can always pick it up by reverting to oral and then cuddling. Talking about it is good, but be very, very sensitive about her feelings and absolutely NO CRITICISM!
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