i think you're trying too hard and worrying too much about it
thats why you can't get it to happen
you both need to relax and it will come
you're doing everything you can
she's probably worried about something not related to sex and it carries over
ps -if she can't even get an O how the hell did anal come up? maybe you're pressuring her too much
maybe it hurts cause you're too rough with her button (may be too sensitive) if its not physical, it could be psychological if she had some sort of abuse in her past (that could lead to her being very experienced, but thats pretty deep psychological stuff for here)
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