For those who asked me to reply with the outcome....
Well, she is back from her vacation and I am back from mine. And now that I have had time to think somewhat rationally, I have decided that I just don't care very much about our friendship anymore. We have seen each other around recently and we have basically have had short conversations about trivial stuff (aka small talk). Our friendship may never return to the level it was at, but that's life. I won't shun her, but I won't go out of my way for her anymore. We have to interact with each other at work sometimes, so I decided it was best not to cause any bad feelings. I know that inaction is bad, but I just don't want to expend any more energy on this.
Again, thanks for all the responses.
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