siryn

I agree. I think my bf understands this, but he is aware of the fact that he would still be jealous and couldn't handle it. In that case, I understand where he is coming from. I feel conflicted about the whole thing, because, tho I know you're right, it's really hard to explain to your bf that he is not enough for you. It musts be pretty trying to hear anything that suggest that.

While sometimes I wish he were the type of boyfriend that welcomes the idea of watching me "do" another girl, or having a threesome, I remember when I told my first bf that I was bi and him responding in said way. I also remember feeling somewhat offended at the fact that he didn't seem to respect the fact that as well as being attracted to girls, I love them too. He refused to think that it was possible for a girl to put up any competition against him and completely denied the possibility of me leaving him for one. That disrespect of lesbians made me think a little differently about the opportunity of taking advantage. In that way, I respect my boyfriends decision, and I would never infringe on those boundaries.