Ewww....
I've always tried to steer clear from people who smoke. I hate to have to do that, but with me just the smell of smoked tobacco triggers a migraine attack. It's not worth putting up with, it just isn't. It's a lame-ass habit, and extremely unhealthy to boot. Drinking in moderation I can handle, and if someone wants to smoke weed now and then, fine. But I cannot imagine living with a smoker.
I don't know your girl, but based on what you said it doesn't sound like she appreciates you trying to change her. Some chicks are like that, and I think it has to do with how many girls these days automatically assume that they are being somehow oppressed because of their gender. I blame it on all that "grrl powr" bullshit that is so popular among bubble gum chewing teenies now.
Voice your opinion clearly, as I am sure you have. If she isn't ready to meet you halfway at all, then maybe you need to reconsider your choices. The question is not whether you can put up with her habit, it is rather whether you should have to, or whether it is worth it to begin with.
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