From my perspective, if you use a dildo, zucchini, coke bottle or baseball bat, it's NOT the same as a hooker. Let's face it: one is "do-it-yourself" and the other is a subcontracting job.
For all anybody knows, you're fantasizing about your signifigant other when you masturbate, and if you find yourself using a prop (including lubricant for you guys out there) then it's not really cheating.
Hell, quite a few female friends of mine have confessed to me that they mentally imagine Mel Gibson (or some other celebrity) when they're with their husbands, boyfriends or whatever. And it goes without saying that the same is true for the guys out there (Pamela Anderson ring any bells, boys????)
So in answer: NO, A DILDO AND A HOOKER DO NOT EQUATE!
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