Being a man I really don't pay attention to this kind of thing during sex...I'm just kinda glad to be there.  If I'm getting head I let go and kinda "melt" into the bed. If we're having regular sex then I am dominant. I would really like women to be more sexually agressive, as I think most men would. Men like to feel desirable also...we usually just won't say so since that is "weak" or opens a vulnerability that can be exploited.
Of course we can overcome instinct, if we couldn't a lot of ppl would be dead right now. I don't think sex should be cerebral all the time, but once in a while would be nice. You just might be a person who prefers things "as they are", whether it's hormonal/gender-based or just how you grew up sexually. There's no wrong way to have sex if everyone involved says yes.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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