What does she define as intimacy anyway?
Sex is sex... and the sexual stimulation/pleasure is definitely something just for couples... as in COUPLES! not a party or network of people!
If you were the one kissing a guy (perish the thought though).. would that bother her?
If it doesn't.. if she classifies it as not sex.. then she really is... mentally out of it!
She must be really "demented" to think that sexual intimacy between girl-friends is ok.... specially that it's behind your back, and she doesn't define it as sex!
Try asking her.. maybe she's ok with orgies? or how about you join her and her friend? would that be ok?
Wish you luck....
Though it's difficult to help someone when they can't let alone recognize that they have a problem.
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