I've never found a consistent method of foreplay. There are some things that almost everyone likes (kissing the neck, lightly stroking the upper back), but the others are completely different. If I touch my wife in any but a few places early in foreplay she is constantly wriggling away because it tickles. Touching her breasts really does nothing for her. One girl I dated could orgasm off of that. When I touch her vagina, I do it in very specific stages and just because we have communicated so well, I know what to do when for the most part. However there is always a time when she has to take my hand and move it to a certain spot or tell me to do harder/softer/faster, etc., because it is never the same time-to-time. Like someone said before, communication is the key and getting inside someone's head like that makes sex so much more intense.
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