OK, from the POV of the girl (having just been the "loves too much" girl a similar situation as above.) End it now! Don't drag it out, it fucking sucks! Even more so when you look back and realise that the past 6 months when you knew there was a problem, you didn't do anything about it hoping things would get better. We're both really good friends - that what our "love" morphed too, but somedays I really resent that those months were in effect wasted. I could have used them to get over him and gotten on with things much sooner.
Ahh, but what can you do.
