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maximus: been there, done that. Shit happens, life goes on. There have only been two loves in my life, and I'm married to my second one now. The break-up with my first gf was really hard on me, mostly because the bitch wouldn't tell me why or give me any closure; just bam it's over. I think I was a little depressed for at least two years after that. About a year and a half later I see her with this other guy and boy did I get steamed, because it was then that I figured out why we had broken up.
Anyways, what I want to say is that once I got past the depression, I started thinking about the relationship and started to realize that the signs of the coming break-up were there, I just didn't see them at the time (love is blind, and all that). Now I can look back at our relationship and think maybe we weren't such a good couple after all. It wasn't an issue of her being wrong for me, it was more that I wasn't good enough for her. Love is a two way street and although you may feel that she is the perfect woman for you, the truly perfect woman feels you are the perfect man for her. Try to reflect on your relationship and see if there were times when she would hint that you could be 'better'. Like someone else said, the sooner you realize the relationship is over the sooner you will get on with your life.
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