Maximus, buddy! Plenty o' fish and all that!
There's nobody out there worth that attitude. I posted on the old board around Xmas last year, feeling much the same way. IMHO its all about gettin' shit done. Catch up with old friends, maybe leave ton for a while, start doing stuff you didn't do with her. Eventually you'll get to the point where you can go places that remind you of her, without breaking down. Took me a few months, but now I can be face to face with her, and think nothing worse than:"Wow, she has no idea how stupid she was to throw me away..."