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maximus, you need to give up that hope that you'll get back together. It's not going to happen and it's just hurting you, and preventing you from moving on...
At the beginning of last summer, I broke up with a girl I had been seeing for almost 2 and a half years. I didn't get over her until more than 6 months after. She sorta knew I wanted her back, and about 5 months after we broke up she just had to let me know completely out of the blue that there was no way we were getting back together. That's what really did it for me, in terms of getting over her. When she told me that, I felt even worse, but things soon started to look up... realizing I wasn't being strung along anymore, and seeing that it was a definite end to something that in reality had ended months before, but I chose to ignore.
It takes time... but give it up, holding on to that hope is just hurting yourself in the long run.
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