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I know it seems like forever buuuut the more hubby pushed after I had my baby the more turned off I got. I felt so drained by caring for the child that no matter how turned on I got I was just too plain tired to do anything. I had C-section and that made things tough enough. Then with hubby pushing me because he was love crazy was tougher. I understand he was hungry for it and I felt bad for making him wait until my body was ready to get back into it. I went ahead and obliged and now sometimes I wish I hadn't. I actually feel a little resentment raising it head now and then over that time. I know it's tough but unless she is the one bringing up the subject on her OWN and wanting some sex drive assistance then my advice would be to just let her be. Come to the titty board here and relieve some of the pressure if need be even. Personally I would suggest waiting a little bit longer. Most Dr's don't recommend having sex until the post birth checkup and even then they suggest waiting until the woman is good and ready. She'll be back into it before long and by then it will seem like it didn't take her long at all. One of the best ways you can support her now is by helping with the baby as much as possible, letting her rest as much as possible, and giving her room for her body to heal - it takes almost a year sometimes for a woman's body to get COMPLETELY back to normal again (certainly not THAT long for her libido to come back). So give her time.
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