women's sex drive....suggestions? - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

hellasnow · 08-05-2003, 03:03 PM

my wife and i were wondering if there were any good products or anything for a increase in sex drive.

we just had our first baby 1 month ago. and were not allowed to be sexually active yet. but halfway through the preg. and up till now she is feeling no thoughts or feelings towards sex.

now i know that she just had a kid come out of there and that is probalby a big turn off for her. as well as her worring about her body some as well. but we are curious what others might have taken or done for this. we don't see our doctor for a few more weeks cause we are goign to ask her as well. but thought i might get a jump start on things....

boy i need to get laid.....lol.....and want my crazy nympho wife rockin' the cock everynight again

h2g2Fan · 08-05-2003, 03:09 PM

it's called going down on her

you can find it at any pharmacy

Slims · 08-05-2003, 03:15 PM

Hang on, 'female viagra' is on the way.

hellasnow · 08-05-2003, 03:20 PM

haha thats the first thing we both said when talking about it......."is there a female viagra?".....lol

platypus · 08-05-2003, 05:18 PM

Get her vibrator. Just a small one like a pocket rocket. Does wonders for all involved.

Mephisto2 · 08-05-2003, 06:11 PM

How about wait a while?

Isn't a month after birth a bit soon to be talking about rocking the Casbah?

Mr Mephisto

PS - Having said that, I probably couldn't follow my own advice! haha

raeanna74 · 08-05-2003, 07:07 PM

I know it seems like forever buuuut the more hubby pushed after I had my baby the more turned off I got. I felt so drained by caring for the child that no matter how turned on I got I was just too plain tired to do anything. I had C-section and that made things tough enough. Then with hubby pushing me because he was love crazy was tougher. I understand he was hungry for it and I felt bad for making him wait until my body was ready to get back into it. I went ahead and obliged and now sometimes I wish I hadn't. I actually feel a little resentment raising it head now and then over that time. I know it's tough but unless she is the one bringing up the subject on her OWN and wanting some sex drive assistance then my advice would be to just let her be. Come to the titty board here and relieve some of the pressure if need be even. Personally I would suggest waiting a little bit longer. Most Dr's don't recommend having sex until the post birth checkup and even then they suggest waiting until the woman is good and ready. She'll be back into it before long and by then it will seem like it didn't take her long at all. One of the best ways you can support her now is by helping with the baby as much as possible, letting her rest as much as possible, and giving her room for her body to heal - it takes almost a year sometimes for a woman's body to get COMPLETELY back to normal again (certainly not THAT long for her libido to come back). So give her time.

kilty · 08-06-2003, 12:15 AM

Massages, videos, make her wack off in front of you till she nuts hard, she'll remember.

hellasnow · 08-06-2003, 06:44 AM

yeah we've been thinking of going to get a small vib.

just to clarify raeanna74 this was a quesiton she was interested in as well as me. she has brought it up and we are certainly not expecting to have sex until the doc say it is ok. she can just feel that the drive is not there now and we know it's cause of all the new changes and with the baby being here and what not. just was curious on thoughts..

thanks for the advice all!

whitefrog · 08-06-2003, 02:58 PM

I just saw this commercial on TV...
Its a pill for women to "Reclaim your sensuality"

http://www.avlimil.com/

08-05-2003, 03:03 PM	#1 (permalink)
hellasnow Insane	women's sex drive....suggestions? my wife and i were wondering if there were any good products or anything for a increase in sex drive. we just had our first baby 1 month ago. and were not allowed to be sexually active yet. but halfway through the preg. and up till now she is feeling no thoughts or feelings towards sex. now i know that she just had a kid come out of there and that is probalby a big turn off for her. as well as her worring about her body some as well. but we are curious what others might have taken or done for this. we don't see our doctor for a few more weeks cause we are goign to ask her as well. but thought i might get a jump start on things.... boy i need to get laid.....lol.....and want my crazy nympho wife rockin' the cock everynight again __________________ "when life looks like easy street..... theres danger at your door." (JG)

08-05-2003, 03:15 PM	#3 (permalink)
Slims Eccentric insomniac Location: North Carolina	Hang on, 'female viagra' is on the way. __________________ "Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill "All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence

08-05-2003, 03:20 PM	#4 (permalink)
hellasnow Insane	haha thats the first thing we both said when talking about it......."is there a female viagra?".....lol __________________ "when life looks like easy street..... theres danger at your door." (JG)

08-05-2003, 05:18 PM	#5 (permalink)
platypus Essen meine kurze Hosen Location: NY Burbs	Get her vibrator. Just a small one like a pocket rocket. Does wonders for all involved. __________________ Out the 10Base-T, through the router, down the T1, over the leased line, off the bridge, past the firewall...nothing but Net.

08-05-2003, 07:07 PM	#7 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	I know it seems like forever buuuut the more hubby pushed after I had my baby the more turned off I got. I felt so drained by caring for the child that no matter how turned on I got I was just too plain tired to do anything. I had C-section and that made things tough enough. Then with hubby pushing me because he was love crazy was tougher. I understand he was hungry for it and I felt bad for making him wait until my body was ready to get back into it. I went ahead and obliged and now sometimes I wish I hadn't. I actually feel a little resentment raising it head now and then over that time. I know it's tough but unless she is the one bringing up the subject on her OWN and wanting some sex drive assistance then my advice would be to just let her be. Come to the titty board here and relieve some of the pressure if need be even. Personally I would suggest waiting a little bit longer. Most Dr's don't recommend having sex until the post birth checkup and even then they suggest waiting until the woman is good and ready. She'll be back into it before long and by then it will seem like it didn't take her long at all. One of the best ways you can support her now is by helping with the baby as much as possible, letting her rest as much as possible, and giving her room for her body to heal - it takes almost a year sometimes for a woman's body to get COMPLETELY back to normal again (certainly not THAT long for her libido to come back). So give her time. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

08-05-2003, 03:09 PM	#2 (permalink)
h2g2Fan Loser Location: University of Maryland at College Park	it's called going down on her you can find it at any pharmacy

08-05-2003, 06:11 PM	#6 (permalink)
Mephisto2 Junkie	How about wait a while? Isn't a month after birth a bit soon to be talking about rocking the Casbah? Mr Mephisto PS - Having said that, I probably couldn't follow my own advice! haha

08-06-2003, 12:15 AM	#8 (permalink)
kilty Tilted	Massages, videos, make her wack off in front of you till she nuts hard, she'll remember.

08-06-2003, 06:44 AM	#9 (permalink)
hellasnow Insane	yeah we've been thinking of going to get a small vib. just to clarify raeanna74 this was a quesiton she was interested in as well as me. she has brought it up and we are certainly not expecting to have sex until the doc say it is ok. she can just feel that the drive is not there now and we know it's cause of all the new changes and with the baby being here and what not. just was curious on thoughts.. thanks for the advice all! __________________ "when life looks like easy street..... theres danger at your door." (JG)

08-06-2003, 02:58 PM	#10 (permalink)
whitefrog Upright	I just saw this commercial on TV... Its a pill for women to "Reclaim your sensuality" http://www.avlimil.com/