I was just wondering... my bf and i are both virgins (we're both 18) .. but we're both ready for sex. There are two questions i've been asking myself however. We arent in love with each other (although we deeply care about each other) and i want to know everyones opinion on whether or not this is okay. Should you wait until you're in love? Also, in a relatively different subject... what are some good ideas for having sex the first time, as in where to and what to do beforehand. (hes romantic, but id like to surprise him myself for a change) Any advice would be much appreciated.
