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Old 07-21-2003, 03:47 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Maybe that's my definition of a fuck buddy clashing with yours then, motdakasha.

If you're a poly, then I don't think you can really use the term fuck buddy, can you?

I mean, when you add Love, I mean real romantic Love, into the equation don't the relations move substantially higher than the concept of just a buddy you have sex with?

I've had what I'd term fuck buddies, and i've been in relationships with several ladies at the same time - all knowing about each other. Those ladies all meant something to me romantically, there was more of a connection there than just friendship.

I've probably only muddied the waters, but still..

For me, Fuck Buddy necessarily means the absence of romantic connections or Love.

I guess everyone is entitled to use the term as they see fit though, it's unlikely to be defined in the Encyclopedea Britanica any time soon, I should imagine.

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