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first off i think its kinda funny that butthead thinks he's far from ugly! hehe joking, just an unusual name.
anyways, i agree with butthead, in that you, as a person, aren't measured by the number of sexual conquests. Nor is anyone else. Some people, who are beneath themselves, believe it to be the case and that is very unfortuante.
although a beautiful person normally encapsulates all attributes, physical and mental, the most important thing is who you are (mental). not what you are (physical). Also humans have so many more dimensions than just there intelligence and what they look like.
i have never really had trouble talking with girls. You have to think about it though, girls are people/humans so i don't understand why it differs so greatly. I understand that generally a girls disposition or nature is more caring/motherly, and that girls generally think differently than guys, although you should try to talk to them as you would one of your friends or another guy. Unless you're in awe of there beauty or something and are literally speechless...
Your intentions or agenda for conversing with a girl in the first place, may be corrupting or convoluting your behaviour. So you have to try and think to yourself that she is just another person and talk to them as you would anyone else. Your intial intentions shouldn't generally to be to try to sleep with her or anything of that nature, but to just get to know her (because somehow she interested you), as you'd like any other human.
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