My fiancee's Chinese.
All you can do is try to keep things calm.
The only thing that truly works is to prove to her parents that you're sincere, and will be a good husband.
Only patience will help.
Don't complain, just take it if you feel like you're being treated unjustly. Remember that your position in this whole situation is easy; your girlfriend is the one taking the flak. Don't add to her troubles by being a drama queen. In the end, you will be accepted if you deserve it. It may not mean they'll like you, but that's not what's important.
And yeah, if you're not serious, stay the hell away.
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The above was written by a true prophet. Trust me.
"What doesn't kill you, makes you bitter and paranoid". - SB2000
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