I worked in an enviroment with serious sex offenders Ultra, and there was a mix from one who would drag women off the streets and into his car - not just the one like, to the other end with a guy who thought clibing through a kids bedroom window and - doing things bad enough for a 15yr stretch - was akin to being santa in some one, delivering a gift. I doubt either will ever be of any different longings than those they obviously have.
A woman or man waking up after a drunken night with someone they wish they hadnt slept with - I call that stupidity, not rape. Spiked drinks of course are different matter, they go in with threats of death or violence against their target or say the targets children.
I dont know about Scotland, but here Rape Crisis Line ladies go into the police training colleges etc to give seminars in the hope that these officers will remember what they are taught when they need it, and hopefully cause no further trauma to the victim than they can not avoid inflicting. I think the judicial system has a lot wrong with it - poor Milly Dowler, attacked in death as she had been in life - that was wrong, so very very wrong.
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