Hi ladies,
This is my first post in this forum, so please bear with me.
I'm in a heterosexual relationship but 'bicurious' and have had a couple of 'flings' with girls a long time ago, but nothing serious. Now I've got a new female friend who I really like and I think I've got a crush on her. She happens to be a lot older than me and is also in a heterosexual relationship. We get on really well and are on the same wavelength. I also find her really attractive and have started to imagine taking things further, just for one night if you know what I mean.
Of course I don't want to ruin our friendship and make her feel disgusted with me if I mention something and she doesn't feel the same way. I really can't tell if she feels the same way or if this isn't something she'd ever consider. I thought of having a few drinks and then asking her if she's ever been with a woman and if she says no I could ask her if she'd like to and see what happens. I could act like it was a joke if she is shocked. Or is that a bad idea? Can anyone tell me what's the best way to approach her?
I know I should probably just forget about it, but it's driving me crazy! And who knows, she might be totally up for it and feel the same!? (Yes, wishful thinking, I know!
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Any advice ladies??